Dating ProposalPROPOSED TO: LUNE August 2025 Prepared By: Sven Vargstad Wilhelm
Objective 3 Introduction 4 Why you should(n’t) dating me 5 Pros of Dating Me 6 Cons of Dating Me 7 Atheia Lune 8 Future Plans and Milestones 10 Conclusion 11 TABLE OF CONTENTS
THE OBJECTIVE It was a pleasure meeting and getting to know you, talking about how we can be more than friends. A relationship that would have such a lot impact on my life. The objective of this to put into words what my heart has been trying to say and to let you see how deeply I wish to walk this path with you. If ever you need clarity, I’d gladly pour my thoughts into a thousand more words, just so you know how much this means to me. I have to kept this proposal to you necessary to outline your understanding of the requirement and how me would work (act) with you. The things stated in this proposal are (kurang lebih): 1.Pros and cons of dating Sven. 2.The reason why I really want to be your boyfriend. 3.Goals. With love, Sven | Page 3
INTRODUCTION I go by the name Sven Vargstad Wilhelm. Feel free to address me as Sven, sayang, kakak or any name that resonates with you. People say I was created when God is happy (maaf kalau terlalu pede tapi ini serius), that is why God always bless and loves me no matter how tough things get, a sprinkle of joy follows me around. Living a life dipped in love and kindness, I am ready to color your days with millions of colors that I have (aslinya aku spidol warna- warni kok, kalo mau ngeliat aku berubah jadi spidol mewarnai tolong akhiri masa jomblo aku). My love language is Acts of Service and Words of Affirmation, udah pernah dikasih tau, cuma sengaja kasih tau lagi soalnya aku punya love language baru, love language Lune artinya semua hal yang berhubungan sama Lune suka. I am a female that carry myself with he him damn dude attitude ya. Maybe it is not something people expect and maybe it makes me a little different but does it change anything between us? I hope not. And honestly, I do not think it should. I have dated both boys and girls before, so I have seen and felt love from many sides. If I am being real, being with boys has often felt a bit more complex lol that is why I want you to know this: if you ever feel like you are “too much,” “too complicated,” or “too hard to love” please do not. Do not overthink whether you are difficult to handle or to understand. You do not have to tone yourself down for me. I will make the effort. I will stay curious about who you are. Udah kali ya introduction-nya, kamu mau tau apa lagi sih tentang aku? Info aja mau tau soal apa asal jangan nama mama dan papaku apalagi alamat rumah, takut dikirimin bom nuklir. With love, Sven | Page 4
WHY YOU SHOULD(N’T) DATING ME With love, Sven | Page 5 Strength Weakness Opportunities Threats I am a “fall-hard, love- deeper” kind of person. Good humor. Bukan 02 voter. Busy person. Manja. Gengsian. Egonya gede. I am 20+ and legal. IPK always +3.00 Cakep. Anger issues. Avoidant. Fanboying idol cewe. PROS AND COS
PROS OF DATING ME Let me tell you a little secret in the honest tone of someone who knows exactly how deep their love can go. If you ever choose to be mine, this is what I promise you. This is what loving me looks like. 1.Kalo sayang gak bakal setengah-setengah. When I fall, I do not do it halfway. I am the type to look at you like you are the only person in the room. Like you are the best thing that is ever happened to the universe and I do not think that is dramatic, that is just how you make me feel. 2.I will treat you like you matter. Because you do. I will make sure you never have to wonder how special you are. Whether you are overthinking something late at night, I will be there to remind you that you are enough, just as you are. 3.Yeah you might be younger than me but I will never look down on you. Not even for a second. In my eyes, kamu emang sometimes look like the baby of the universe, cute enough to be wrapped in bubble wrap. Other times, the way you speak, think, and carry yourself makes me feel like I am looking at a soul older than mine. I admire both. 4.We have only known each other for 1 months but I will treat you like I have known you for a lifetime. Because some souls do not need years to feel familiar. You already feel like home. And whether it is been one days or fifty years, I will always treat you with that kind of comfort and care. 5.You will always have my soft spot. Kamu tau aku gak bisa marah-marah like ngomong kasar ke kamu atau punya niat buat nyakitin kamu. No matter how the day goes, no matter what mood I am in, when I look at you, I will soften. You will always be the exception to my storms. You will always be the one I never want to hurt, only hold. 6.Anak baik-baik. I have been raised with kindness and I carry it with pride. 7.People say, my friends exactly, I have always been good at loving the person I am with. 8.Always listening & understanding. 9.You will always be at the center of my heart. Not an afterthought. Not a “when I have time.” You will be in my plans, in my prayers, every day. I do not want to fit you into my life. I want to build it with you in mind. 10.For the rest coba langsung aja jadi pacar aku biar gak keliatan kayak self- proclaimed. I swear gak bakal bikin nyesel (pinky promise). With love, Sven | Page 6
CONS OF DATING ME Before we begin something that could become everything, I think it is only fair that I open up a little more, not just about the good parts of me, but also the pieces I am still working on. Bukan karena mau warning you or trying to downplay myself, cuma letting you see me fully, yang sedikit banyak complicated ini. 1.I am a busy person and still figuring out how to manage my time. Jujur aku jelek banget di segi manage waktu. Juga I value my time for myself more than anything else. 2.Susah peka. I consider myself someone who struggles with reading emotional cues. I am not always quick to notice when something is off. I might miss the subtle signs that you are upset or that you need comfort. Aku kurang bisa baca situasi dan perasaan orang lain. I am still learning to ask the right questions, to really see what is going on behind your smile. So if I ever fall short in that way, I hope you will help me understand you better ya. 3.Suka mendam masalah sendiri. When something is wrong, I tend to retreat into myself. I am not used to being vulnerable, to saying “I’m not okay” out loud. Aku juga gak terbiasa bergantung sama orang lain buat sekedar dengerin atau minta advice, aku udah terbiasa sendiri. Jadi if one day you notice me a little distant or quieter than usual it is probably because I am wrestling with something I have not figured out how to share yet. But I hope in time, I will learn to trust you with those parts of me too. I just ask for your patience and maybe a soft presence to come back to. 4.Kurang suka diatur atau disuruh-suruh. 5.Sometimes I get angry quickly, not always at others but mostly at myself. Kadang kalo lagi emosi juga I can hurt myself. Soo when something triggers me, my first instinct is to withdraw, to be alone karena I do not want to hurt the people I care about with something I do not mean. If one day I ask for space bukan berarti I want to push you away ya, but because I need to calm down. I hope you will understand. I am trying to be better. I want to be better, especially for someone like you. With love, Sven | Page 7
ANTHEIA LUNE Lately, her name has been slipping constantly in my mind, like a soft and persistent rhythm that never fades. Even in daydreams that feel warmer because they carry a piece of her. It is a name I hold dearly, one I hope I will never forget, not now, not ever. Honestly, I do not even know what I am supposed to write here hehe. I just felt the need to let her know, in the simplest yet most honest way I can, that I am completely, deeply, and endlessly in love with her. She is the source of my happiness. She is my friend, my best friend and the better half of me that I never knew I was missing until I met her. She gave me hope in the very moment I thought I had none left. She looked at the broken pieces of me, the past I often wished I could erase and she embraced it all. To her my past was simply a story that shaped me, not something that defined me forever. She is honest. She is true. She is the one person with whom my heart feels completely safe. With her, I have never once thought my heart could be in danger. She is the kind of person who makes me eager to wake up in the morning, because the thought of her alone makes life feel worth living. She is intelligent, beautiful in ways that stop me in my tracks, skilled, caring and filled with a love that seeps into every part of my soul. She makes me want to be the best person I can be. She is perfect, though she hasn’t yet fully realized how perfect she truly is. One day, she will see it, but until then, I will keep reminding her. She makes me smile without even trying, sometimes the simple thought of her is enough to light up my entire day. She tries, every single day, to make me feel special and she always succeeds often without realizing just how much she means to me. She respects me deeply. My thoughts, my opinions, my ideas. She listens, she communicates, she doesn’t dismiss me. She’s always trying to strengthen what we have, even though to me she is already perfect. She sacrifices for me without hesitation not because she has to but because she wants to. She is my strongest supporter, the one who pushes me forward when I doubt myself. Even when I lose faith in me, she doesn’t. She looks at me as though I carry magic within me, even in the moments when I feel the least capable. She believes in me and my worth more than I sometimes believe in myself. With love, Sven | Page 8
ANTHEIA LUNE She has never tried to change me. She knows all my bads, the messy and strange parts of me and instead of pushing them away, she embraces them. She trusts me fully, completely, without conditions. She places her heart in my hands and believes that I will protect it, not for a day, not for a moment, but for a lifetime. She believes I am someone who can be counted on, someone who will not let her down. She does not walk away when things get difficult. She does not love me only when I am easy to love. She stays, even when I am messy, even when I feel like I am nothing. That is why she is everything. She is, in every sense, my miracle, my safe place, and my home. I am not someone who believes in forever. For twenty-one years, the word itself has felt like a weight I could never carry. Forever always sounded too impossible for me. I have always questioned “why?” because nothing lasts forever, not even love. I’ve grown to accept that maybe that is simply the nature of things. Love, to me, has always been fleeting—a beautiful spark that burns brightly for a moment and then fades into memory. And still, if I were given the chance to express just how much love I carry in my heart for her, I would say this without hesitation: “I will always love you, Lune.” Not because I believe in some magical idea of love that never fades, but because I choose to love her, constantly, intentionally and wholeheartedly. I choose to stay, to show up, to keep pouring myself into the kind of love that does not just exist, but is worked on, day by day. So maybe nothing lasts forever. Maybe everything changes. But even knowing that, I want to build a love with Luna that can stand against the weight of time. And in a world where nothing lasts, I want my love for herto be the exception I spend my life making true. With love, Sven | Page 9
FUTURE PLANS AND MILESTONES Kalo pacaran, hal yang diharapkan dan juga kegiatan-kegiatan yang bisa dilakukan adalah sebagai berikut: No Goals/Kegiatan 1 First of all, of course I want to be Lune’s boyfriend. 2 Besides being a boyfriend, I want to be a friend, family, home and anyone Lune needs. 3 Lune temenin Sven stress skripsian. 4 COTY. 5 Hidup bareng sampai umur 25 tahun. 6 Having 100 to-do list together. 7 Robloks 24 jam. 8 Loving each other sampai muak. 9 Pacaran 24 jam di all platforms 10 Tambahin sendiri aja lah. With love, Sven | Page 10 GOALS YANG INGIN DICAPAI INTINYA.
CONCLUSION With love, Sven | Page 11 Someone like you deserves more than just a simple confession. That’s why I chose to write this, even if it only came together in a short time and may carry its own imperfections. It might not be flawless, but it’s honest, it’s written straight from the most genuine part of me. Adek, maybe I’ve never truly known how to receive love. Maybe I still stumble when someone chooses me, as if I’m still trying to believe that I’m someone worth staying for. I know I’ve often been afraid when it comes to love, especially when the feelings grow too real, too overwhelming. And I won’t pretend that I’m the easiest person to love. I come with my own edges, with silences I can’t always explain, with walls I sometimes don’t know how to put down. But in spite of all that, I find myself cherishing you in ways I never thought I could again. You’ve made me want to calm the storms inside me, to soften the weight I’ve carried for too long, to clear away the parts of me that once felt too broken to share. For the first time in so long, I want someone to feel at home in me. And I want that someone to be you. So I’ve been trying, quietly, genuinely. Trying to smooth down the rough places in my heart so they can be soft enough for you to rest in. I want you to know there is always space for you here. Yes there are shadows and tangled corners in me, places that feel like mazes with no clear way through. But if you ever choose to walk those paths with me, I promise you will never walk them alone. Every step you take, I’ll be there, guiding us closer to the light. And adek, if there is one thing I’m absolutely sure of, it’s you. Even before I had the words, even before I had the courage to speak, my heart had already chosen you. Quietly, softly, like it always knew. That certainty makes me want to try harder—to be gentler, to grow into someone who isn’t only holding love but is worthy of it too. I may not be perfect at being loved yet. But when it comes to loving you, I’ve never been more certain of anything. I want to be there in every moments of your life, in the gentle days and the difficult ones. I want to know you deeply and be known by you just as deeply in return. So Lune, instead of simply saying “Will you be my girlfriend?” I want to ask, will you let me be the one who stands by you, who loves you with all that I am and who chooses you as my only, always?
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